Goldilocks Is Probably Still Single
“We just don’t have that much in common.” If you’ve said these words recently to end a promising relationship or you know someone who has, don’t worry. You’re not alone. The “Goldilocks syndrome” is a...
View ArticleAfraid of Romance, Accepting Unconditional Love
As I was driving to my boyfriend’s place the other night, I realized something significant. The nervous butterflies that usually fluttered through my stomach before a date weren’t there. We were past...
View Article4 Tips for Surviving a Breakup
“He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3 After six months of dating, my first relationship ended at a Starbucks. Two weeks before Valentine’s Day. Before it happened, I...
View Article5 Dating Mistakes I’m Guilty Of
I confess I’ve made more than a few dating mistakes. Maybe you also cringe at some of your dating memories. I’ve experienced both dating wins and losses, but I’ve been guilty of these five mistakes on...
View ArticleYour Guide to His Brain: Episode 527
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: What baffles you most about the opposite gender’s brain? Roundtable: Dress for Dating Success Ever wished you could get...
View Article5 Ways Avoiding Arguments Can Ruin Your Relationship
I’m gonna go out on a limb and guess there’s something you and your girlfriend or boyfriend don’t quite see eye to eye on. Maybe it’s something small like your favorite movie genre. Or maybe it’s...
View ArticleYou Are Seen: Episode 531
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: How can you practically draw close to God when you experience longings to be seen? Roundtable: The Ugly Truth About Beauty...
View Article“The Dating Project” Documentary (Plus a Curriculum From Boundless!)
A new documentary titled “The Dating Project” hits theaters for one night only this coming Tuesday, April 17. Presented by PureFlix and Paulist Productions, the film follows five single adults of...
View ArticleWhen Your Date Has Kids: Episode 533
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: As a millennial, what difficulties do you have with relating to older generations at work? What have you done to solve this...
View ArticleRejection Doesn’t Mean You’re Unlovable
My high school and college years were miserable. It felt like I was constantly being rejected. Every girl I pursued turned me down. Friends just stopped talking to me, and there wasn’t anyone standing...
View ArticleSetting Up Friends and Being Set Up: The Dos and Don’ts
The idea of being set up on a date used to be objectionable to me. It seemed as if I was lowering my standards because I couldn’t find someone on my own, or as if I wasn’t trusting God to dump a guy on...
View Article500 Miles of Friendship: Episode 535
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: What can your high school or college self teach you? Roundtable: Let Your Younger Self Teach You It’s May, and our social...
View ArticleEngagement Stories: Bethany & Chris
I had been reading articles on Boundless for over 10 years, but last year I began commenting more often on Boundless’ Facebook posts. One Wednesday afternoon in November 2017, I received a Facebook...
View Article5 Ways New Couples Can Love Their Single Friends
I’ve spent the majority of my 29 years as a single person. I’ve struggled with the ups and downs and the loneliness associated with being unmarried. I’ve responded to questions of “Why are you still...
View ArticleHow to Talk to Guys: Episode 537
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: If you’re a guy, what tips would you give to girls who want to talk to you without being awkward? If you’re a girl, how do...
View Article5 Tips for Managing Time as a Couple
“How do married people do this?” I exclaimed to my friend after admitting how stressed I am. My fiancé and I are struggling with managing our time — or, should I say, finding time to rest amid all the...
View ArticleHow to Talk to Girls: Episode 538
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: If you’re a guy, how do you talk to girls — without being awkward? If you’re a girl, what are your tips for guys who are...
View ArticleFind Your Tribe: Episode 539
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: How do you think men can live out masculinity in God-honoring ways in the 21st century? Roundtable: Modern Masculinity...
View ArticleI’m in an Interracial Relationship (Part 1)
I’m in an interracial relationship. Mike is black and I’m white. I’ve always been attracted to men with darker skin, and Mike’s always been attracted to lighter-skinned women. We’re both incredibly...
View ArticleGrieving After a Breakup
Breakups happen. They’re sloppy, they’re ugly, and the emotional distress they create is undeniable. It’s because the emotional distress is real that you must take breakups seriously, even when no one...
View ArticleSlow Down: Episode 540
Listen to this week’s show! This week on “The Boundless Show” Comment below: How does rest factor into your life? Do you have tips or strategies for planning times of rest this summer? Roundtable:...
View ArticleI’m in an Interracial Relationship (Part 2)
It’s 2018, and my husband, Mike, and I are still stared at, laughed at and told we can’t take quality photos together because of the contrast of our skin tones because we’re an interracial couple. For...
View ArticleTheir Wedding Was Beautiful, but My Attitude Wasn’t
It was beautiful. Their wedding was on a hillside of the rolling South Dakota plains on a sunny day in June. The bride was dressed lavishly in white, and the groom wore jeans, a suit jacket and a...
View ArticleFriends After a Breakup? Is It Possible?
When my college boyfriend and I broke up, I experienced for the first time the range of emotions that come with a broken hear. I was predominantly sad. But I also experienced other emotions: relief and...
View ArticleI’m Scared to Walk Alone: The Daily Fear Women Face
Every time I leave the safety of my car to walk the city streets, I’m afraid. When I admitted this to my fiancé the other day — that I never forget my phone in case I need to call for help, that I...
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