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Feminism Under Fire: Episode 380
Listen to this week’s show! Question to discuss: How do you reconcile a modern view of feminism with biblical Christianity? How does this play out in your daily life and interactions? Roundtable:...
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The Only Lethal Mistake in Dating
When I was single, it was easy for me to be friends with the single women in my life, but as soon as I moved in the direction of dating, things got weird. People tried to give me pointers and steer me...
View ArticleWhat Makes Engagement So Hard
When I was single, I assumed engagement would be one of the easiest and most blissful parts of my relationship with my future spouse. But the day after I asked my fiancée, Raquel, if she would marry...
View ArticleAdvice for Dateless Men
Suzanne Hadley Gosselin recently wrote a post for women called, “I’m 25 and I’ve Never Been on a Date.” She invited our female readers to ask themselves three key questions that may help jump-start...
View ArticleFive Questions With an Unlikely Convert
A couple of years ago, a YouTube video was going around the Internet of a former lesbian being interviewed about her conversion to Christianity. Her name was Dr. Rosaria Butterfield, and she had...
View ArticleHow to Be Beautiful for the One You Really Want
A decade ago, I knew two young women whom I’ll refer to as Molly and Tiffany. Plenty of guys fawned over Molly, but they overlooked Tiffany, even though she was more attractive than Molly. If you got...
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We’ll Miss You, Martha!: Episode 393
Listen to this week’s show! Question to discuss: Have you ever wondered if you missed a marriage opportunity by passing someone by on your first round of acquaintance? How do you come to grips with the...
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The Three Levels of a Woman’s Heart
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Proverbs 4:23, NIV). It seems that in recent times, guarding my heart is something I’ve had to learn a lot about, and I am...
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Dating Sense and Sensibility: Episode 396
Listen to this week’s show! Question to discuss: When dating, how have you (or do you intend to) protect physical and emotional purity in your relationship? Roundtable: Apartment Accountability You’re...
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6 Things That Make Single Ladies Less Attractive
If you’ve read anything I’ve written about singleness and dating at Boundless, you are well aware that I believe men bear the greater degree of responsibility for initiating relationships with the...
View Article6 Things That Make Single Guys More Attractive
Last week, Joshua Rogers wrote a blog post called “6 Things That Make Single Ladies Less Attractive”. While he made some good points, his approach had a few flaws. First of all, quite a few of the...
View Article10 Ways to Let Him Know You’re Interested
In high school, I remember reading an article in a teen magazine that was something like “17 Sneaky Ways to Flirt With Him.” (You can question me on my taste in literature later.) I still remember one...
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Dangerous Faith: Episode 404
Listen to this week’s show! Question to discuss: What do you fear God may call you to do in your lifetime? Roundtable: What if God Asks You to Do This? Have you ever been afraid of God asking you to do...
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Getting Ahead: Episode 418
Listen to this week’s show! Question to Discuss: What’s your opinion on Christians pursuing bigger and better jobs? Roundtable: Holy Ambition Balancing godly ambition with selfish desire can be quite...
View ArticleDo Women Lack Romantic Options or Are They Too Choosy?
One of the biggest complaints I hear from the single women I talk to is that there seems to be a lack of quality single men to pursue them. In “The Eligible-Bachelor Paradox,” Mark Gimein explores this...
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Best Foot Forward: Episode 425
Listen to this week’s show! Question to Discuss: What do you think are some of the best indicators of a mature Christian faith, and how do you recognize them in a dating relationship? Roundtable: The...
View ArticleWomen Who Make the First Move Have Greater Online Dating Success
If you’re considering online dating for the first time, or if you’re diving in again, you are probably hoping to meet interesting people and go on a few dates. Part of accomplishing that is having a...
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Broaden Your Dating Horizons
My fiancé, Pat, and I weren’t what you would call “perfect for each other” when we first met. I was looking for an alpha male who would go out to restaurants with me and debate politics and religion,...
View Article3 Ways Women View Introverted Men
I just took the Myers-Briggs personality test, and if there’s one thing that’s certain about my personality, it’s that I’m extroverted. At the same time, I like introverts — in fact, almost all of my...
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The First Five Dates: Leaving My Comfort Zone
With butterflies in my stomach, I arrive at the quaint coffee shop to meet my date — my first date in more than a year. After recently turning 40, I decided to give dating another try and set a goal...
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